Are you addicted to porn? If you watch porn regularly it's likely you will lose the ability to  fantasise and could experience difficulty in climaxing or maintaining an erection. Ron Garreti in his TED talk says he stopped watching porn, as he believed he was taking part in filmed prostitution with male domination of women and he found his emotional health was suffering. Like other men he was finding it increasingly difficult to be aroused … [Read more...]

Do Men Endure Loneliness Quietly? Loneliness affects everyone. It’s at the heart of what it means to be human – to be in the world with others and yet still feel utterly alone. Existentialists would regard loneliness as being intrinsic to what it means to be human and has a purpose - to discover and accept who we are while coming to terms with our own limitations and need for personal connection. With access to the Internet The inner struggle … [Read more...]

Are Childhood Wounds Driving How You Live Your Life? Childhood wounding can happen as part of growing up and is usually attributed to important influential relationships such as parents and siblings. Wounds include the loss of a parent or both, a parent who is critical, demanding, judgemental; abuse - emotionally, physically, psychologically, sexually; dysfunctional family lifestyle where trauma, addiction, mistreatment, absence or violence was … [Read more...]

Dreams – The Meeting Between the Waking and Sleeping Worlds Are you a dreamer? Do you remember your dreams and do you desperately try to understand them when they don’t make sense? Some people dream intensely and remember the details while others don’t think they dream or forget them once they wake up. Neuroscientists are telling us it that if you don’t dream you would be dead as the brain needs this time to recover and the dream you remember … [Read more...]